Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Thoughts On Single Women Wanting To Get Laid. Sarah Tiana. Picking Up Women In Hotel Bars.


Does that woman above look familiar? Her name is Sarah Tiana and she's a comic. I've heard her on a few podcasts and thought she seemed super sweet and cool. And she's funny. Smart. Cute.

Well she was on Ari Sharrif's podcast* and although they've been friends for 10 years he had no idea that she wasn't the innocent girl he thought she was. Because she revealed that she constantly hooks up with guys. And she doesn't just go out to a bar and then hook up with a guy she accidentally meets. She goes to places specifically to meet a guy to hook up with. And she goes out by herself.

And it brings up the whole discussion of why is nothing negative thought of men when they sleep around but women are considered sluts? I personally don't think that way but a lot of people do. And she made no apologies for it either. She also said she doesn't hook up with just any guy. If the guy doesn't dress well there's no chance. And if she really likes the guy and there is a chance that they might date she won't sleep with him either. Her whole attitude is that, "I want to get laid so I go out and meet a guy for that reason."

And here's where she totally won me over. Her favorite place to meet someone to hook up with? Hotel bars. I totally agree! The people there are traveling through, they usually have good jobs and there is a room nearby. And may I add that if there is a trade show in town or a convention that your odds go up. It will all be in my "How to meet women"** book if I ever decide to write it (I'll probably just publish it as an ebook).

Oh and she also has a quality that I love in women. She loves sex but you would have no idea just looking at her or having a random conversation with her. 

So what are your thoughts on this?

*For a link to the podcast episode click here.
**Quick tip for meeting someone at a hotel bar: When you walk into a bar do a quick scan and see if there is someone attractive sitting alone. If there's a seat next to them sit there and say hi right away. If there isn't, sit where they can see you. But before you do that stand up for a bit until they see you then smile at them. And if there is something weird on TV or a loud annoying person there you can give her a non verbal expression of, "What the hell is THAT about?" Then you won't feel as nervous when you walk over and talk to her. Pretty obvious but you have to be always thinking people.

18 comments:

Dr Zibbs said...

...oh yeah. And don't be creepy.

Suze said...
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Dr Zibbs said...

Suze very honest answer. Glad youre happy. I feel sad for people that arent happy with their sex lives whether theyre in a relationship or not.

Dr Zibbs said...

...and for the record im in a relationship with a beautiful woman that im in love with lest any of you gals were thinking of emailing me in hopes of bedding me down. So there you go.

Indigo Roth said...

Hey Zibbs, I like the honesty of the lady, tho I'd imagine a pretty gal wanting to pick up random cock-brained guys will have more luck than the other way round. Still. I may have to try it; it's been way too long. Roth

Dr Zibbs said...

Indigo -haha oh yeah. Its so much easier for women. Even an unattractive woman can pick up a guy. And why has it been so long?

diane said...

I don't really care what anyone else does as long as no one gets hurt.
As for me, no comment, it's just private, that's all.
PS: I'm really happy for you & the new girl. Keeping my fingers crossed. xo

Dr Zibbs said...

Diane great thinking. If it bothers nobody else then why do people care. And thanks. Finally happy after all these years.

Just Keepin It Real, Folks! said...

I never heard of Sarah before but she is now my hero. If my hubby of 26 years ever kicks me out, I'm following her lead.

Dr Zibbs said...

Just keepin it - do it!

BamaTrav said...

If "Just keepin it real's" husband kicks her out, I WILL be in that hotel.

Dr Zibbs said...

Bama awww yeah. We got a love connection in da howse!

Scope said...

I have seen her before. Not like in a hotel bar thought. Like TV.

And you know, except for like, our almost 16 year old daughters, what she does is her own business.

Dr Zibbs said...

Scope - agreed.

Cameron said...

And I'm now going to frequent hotel bars regularly. And I'm going to try to hook up with chicks that are trying to hook up with hotel guests. And if I should bag a babe, she'll be like, "Let's go back to your room." And I'll be like, "I don't have a room here." And she'll be like, "Well let's get one." And I'll be like, "We going Dutch on this? I mean, how do I know you're worth it?"

Pretty smooth, huh!

Dr Zibbs said...

Cameron - you're a natural. Just one fashion tip: The bigger the collar the better. (Think Furley)

Furtheron said...

well I have to laugh at this... in 20 years working for the same company I managed somewhere in the region of 80 - 90 trips back and forth to the USA, that doesn't include domestic and European trips (which were much less frequent)... for most of my time I was very very often in the hotel bar and never once picked up a woman or had a woman hit on me...

Now that is probably because a) I'm happily married (so my wife tells me anyway) b) I was for much of this time a drunk and therefore not attractive to anyone!

Oh no - I've just realised one time I was probably hit on, a lady in her twilight years - somewhere north of 60 - I was early 40s I suppose. She started asking me about the local casino which i told her was a god awful place to be avoided but she was saying things like "I'd not go on my own" etc. I just gave her directions... useless arent' I.

We could write two sides of the story - you write the how to do it chapters and I'll add the this is how to screw it up comical bit at the end of each of them... LOL!

Dr Zibbs said...

Furtheron _ haha. Its al about always looking for it.